As I first walked through the Recolita Cemetary in Buenos Aires, one of the most famous in the world,

I noticed that many of the elaborate tombs were full of scattered debris, dead flowers and broken vases and the engraved names of their occupants were male and with an afterthought of "and family"

I surmised that these men spent a good deal of the family money to erect these monuments of self and after their demise their families did not spend more of what was left to maintain them…or no one was left to tend them…